He's supposedly drowning in work at his new job and can't even manage a 'Hi', but his Snap score has jumped a cool 120 points since this morning. I'm sitting here on my lunch break, staring at my phone, feeling completely ripped off. Does he suddenly not give a damn about me, or what's with all this fuss?

Short and sweet: Math doesn't lie, and neither does your Snap score. Nobody accidentally sends dozens of Snaps to accounting while stressed out at work. The fact is: If you have time to keep flames alive or send silly memes to your friends, you also have ten seconds to send a sign of life to the person you supposedly have a crush on. This isn't about a lack of time, it's about priorities. Your first step: Put your smartphone away, close your detective agency, and save yourself the passive waiting during your lunch break. Don't confront him with accusations of being controlling, but with pure reality. Send him a curt message: "Looks like you're good at multitasking with that Snap score—just let me know when you have some real brainpower left for me." Then turn around and get on with your work. Anyone who wants you will find a gap between meetings. Anyone who just sends excuses doesn't deserve your lunch break.