He literally sent me a TikTok about 'high cortisol and ruined estrogen' right after I said I wasn’t in the mood, claiming my body is broken. We’re not even officially dating, but every time I just want to chill without hooking up, he bombards me with supplement clips and 'hormone fix' videos. Now I’m spiraling at 2 AM thinking something is medically wrong with me, but deep down I just feel totally played and pressured. Is it actually normal to not want sex constantly, or should I be panicking about my labs?

Deep breath: your hormones are very likely fine, but your situationship’s empathy radar needs serious maintenance. TikTok's wellness-influencers diagnosing teenage endocrine systems are already exhausting, but using them as a weapon because someone won't hook up with you? That’s next-level manipulative. Your libido is not a vending machine that’s 'out of order' just because he pressed a button and nothing came out. Desire fluctuates naturally—and nothing kills it faster than a guy acting like your personal boundaries are a chronic illness. If you genuinely had erratic cycles or extreme fatigue, you’d see a real doctor, not someone who learned biology from a three-minute reel set to lo-fi beats. Next time he sends a holistic hormone clip, send this back: "My biology is doing fine. My body just doesn't respond to guilt trips." Not being turned on 24/7 isn’t a medical mystery—it’s just being human.