I am vibrating with pure rage right now. Last weekend my situationship badgered me to try anal even though I said a flat-out NO three separate times. Fast forward to yesterday: the clown posted a TikTok whining that girls with boundaries are 'boring prudes who ruin fun.' But then his ex stitched it, exposing word-for-word how he used the exact same guilt-trip script on her last year. Half our school saw it, and now he is blowing up my phone begging me to 'clear his name' so people stop calling him a creep. How do I tell him off without feeding his pathetic victim complex?

Short version: do not lift a single finger to save a man who willingly lit himself on fire for views. Consent isn’t a debate tournament, and 'no' is not an invitation to wear you down until you're exhausted. What he did in private was already coercive; taking it to TikTok to throw a public toddler tantrum because he couldn't push past your boundary is next-level audacity. His ex didn't ruin his reputation, she just handed everyone the pattern recognition they needed. You do not work in his crisis PR department. You owe him zero cover, zero sympathy, and definitely zero replies to his frantic texts. If you want to send one final text before hitting block, keep it ice-cold: 'You wrote the script, so enjoy the reviews. Don't contact me again.' Karma usually takes its sweet time, but watching a boundary-crosser get publicly humbled by his own rerun is absolute poetry. Let him burn.