I thought she was cheating with an ex because she never touches me and demanded each other's phone passwords on day one. But last night her screen lit up... she’s spending $300 a month sexting an anime AI bot while telling me she just has 'zero libido lately'. What the hell do I even do with that? Am I being cucked by an algorithm?

Short answer: You aren't being cucked by an algorithm, but you are definitely getting sidelined by one. Demanding mutual phone surveillance under the banner of "total honesty" while secretly feeding a digital fantasy machine isn’t vulnerability—it’s deflection. The uncomfortable truth? An AI bot is easy. It never has bad breath, never needs emotional reciprocity, and always feeds the user's ego on command. Real humans are messy, vulnerable, and require effort. She took the ultimate low-risk shortcut and locked you out of the bedroom to make room for it. You don’t have to compete with code. Lay it flat on the table without yelling: "I signed up for a relationship with a real person, not to be a roommate while you date your phone. If we're going to work, the bot goes and our intimacy starts." If she gets defensive or tries to brush it off as harmless gaming, take that as your cue. You deserve someone who actually craves flesh, blood, and reality.