Marley asks · 08 Oct 2026
I trusted this guy from my evening class enough to tell him I’ve never slept with anyone, and his immediate reaction was posting a TikTok complaining that dating an adult virgin feels like "running an unpaid internship." I am beyond furious. We’ve barely been dating three weeks and he’s farming my private life for views? How do I even look at him tomorrow without screaming?
Dr Gnoxx answers
Short and brutal: You don't scream at him, you fire him from the "internship."
What he did isn't just wildly disrespectful, it’s peak cowardice. You handed him raw, vulnerable honesty, and instead of treating it with basic decency, he turned your private life into cheap engagement bait for strangers on an algorithm. Sex with someone new is always about learning each other from scratch anyway—unless he genuinely believes his own bedroom skills are so legendary that they qualify as an accredited training program (spoiler: people who whine like this usually suck at listening in bed anyway).
Tomorrow in class, give him zero drama and total emotional frostbite. If he tries to talk to you, look him dead in the eye and say: "I saw your TikTok. Don't worry about the internship, I’m declining the position."
Then turn around and focus on your notes. Someone who trades your trust for thirty likes isn't mature enough to share a bed with you, let alone your first time.
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