My sister literally treats me like I’m on house arrest with an ankle monitor 💀 She demands a Snap location check every twenty minutes when I’m out at parties, and if I miss one, she threatens to rat to our parents that I’m binge drinking and “risking my life”. I’m beyond furious, can she chill??

Clear call right off the bat: That’s not sisterly protection, that’s an unpaid internship as an FBI agent with a severe control habit. Checking in once to see if you made it safely? Fine, sweet even. Demanding proof of life every twenty minutes while threatening to snitch? That turns a fun night into an exhausting chore. Next time before you head out, draw the line in the daytime when tempers are cool. Tell her straight: "I appreciate you looking out for me, but I am not living my night on a twenty-minute timer. I’ll text you when I arrive and when I leave, but the constant surveillance stops now." If she runs to your parents over normal boundaries, let her. Being honest about being responsible beats dancing on her puppet strings any day.