Mia asks · 05 Oct 2026
Will I ever be in a committed relationship with him?
Translated from German
Dr Gnoxx answers
Unfortunately, no one can see into the future – the answer to that question currently rests within only one person: himself. Instead of endlessly floating in uncertainty and interpreting signals, the only solution is to be clear.
First, ask yourself: How does he treat you? If someone truly wants a committed relationship, you'll usually notice it by the fact that he prioritizes spending time with you, makes firm plans, and integrates you into his life. If it's felt like a limbo or just a situational arrangement for months, it's often because he's not ready for anything more.
Your next step: Have an open conversation. Tell him calmly how you feel and that you want something serious. His reaction will give you the answer – either he reciprocates, or you'll know where you stand and stop wasting your time waiting. You deserve someone who is completely sure about you.
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